Four tricks for a more relaxed holiday
Datum: 2024-05-23 08:51
Another vacation is fast approaching. Perhaps it still feels far off, but believe me, it will be here before you know it. Getting a break from work and enjoying the summer will be wonderful, but regardless of how long our break from it all will be, there is a chance that our work tempo accelerates all the way to the very last moments at work, and then… suddenly we have flipped into vacation-mode, slightly ruffled, making the shift somewhat like a classic Cosmo-entrance in the TV-series Seinfeld.
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Smooth sailing and a softer landing
Now, would we not rather transition into that vacation mode smoothly and settle softly into a relaxed holiday, and then once it is over, start working at a pleasant pace as well? I was recently interviewed by two of Sweden’s three major newspapers as well as a magazine regarding how structure can help us do just that, so today I want to highlight a few things we can do right now to make these few months before the summer holidays more pleasant and enjoyable.
Do this
- Sift and sort through your list — If your “things to get done before vacay”-list is so long that it makes you uncomfortable, be kind to yourself and sift out as much as possible.
- Of all the items on your list, which and what do not, in all honesty, actually need to get done before your vacation? Remove these tasks from the list completely.
- What tasks could you postpone for your return without any severe consequence? Set new due dates for these non-urgent tasks.
- Which tasks could you simply ask someone else to do now? Formulate the first step for delegating each and every one of these tasks, if delegating them is not so easy and effortless that you could do it right away.
You would be wise to reserve time in the calendar for doing the remaining tasks, those that really do need to get done before clocking out for the summer, sometime between now and the moment you leave the office on that last workday. And in addition to that, schedule as few other things as possible during the final week of work. - Prevent interruptions — Take time now to think about what questions colleagues, clients, suppliers or other people who are usually dependent on you, might have and need answers for when you are away. Perhaps you could even straight out ask them if they themselves can predict what they might need help with when you are out of the office. Send them any information you think they might need before going on holiday, write a simple FAQ (which you could call a PAQ — “Probably Asked Questions”), or give them the links to the documents they might need access to.
- Be clear in your out-of-office auto-replies — If your work somehow demands it, decide how people who urgently need to reach you in case of emergencies can do so, and give explicit instructions in your out-of-office auto-response email, in your voicemail message and other potential channels of communication you use and which allow you to prepare an out-of-office message. Perhaps you will choose text messages to be the way people can reach you so that you can refrain from frequently opening the email inbox just to make sure you are not missing something important and instead rest assured that nothing is waiting for you since you will be alerted via text if there is. Make sure to clearly state if you will even answer the emails you got during your holiday once you are back at work. It can be important to the sender to know since the view that you can just calmly delete all messages received during your vacation as “people will get in touch again if it was that important” is becoming increasingly common and I hear it quite often from people I meet.
- Leave it halfway - If you, despite your best efforts, do not manage to finish a task before you leave, and it is not a big deal if you continue working on it when you get back, do as Ernest Hemingway supposedly did — stop in the middle of it. Before you leave the task for now, make a note in or by the task in the to-do-list what the last thing you did was, and what the obvious next step to begin with ought to be when you get back, and the threshold for getting started again will be as low as it can possibly get.
“Here comes summer …”
Just as a single day of sunshine does not make a summer, neither does a single tip of structure guarantee a restful vacation free from interruptions — but it does even out the odds a bit, and if you follow my lead, it will make those last weeks and days before it is time to put work on hold a tad more bearable. You will finish off feeling less stressed, experience fewer annoying interruptions of your well-needed vacation, and find it easier to ease yourself back into the routine of work and everyday life again once it is over. Worth a shot, wouldn’t you say?
Any other ideas?
Do you use some other trick or structure-related method for relieving yourself of stress and tension before the vacation, and ensuring it becomes as restful as possible? Share your best tips with me.
(You could also delegate some tasks to your calmer summer self!)
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