How to tackle the unevenness of everyday life
Datum: 2024-05-06 09:06
The stone steps that make up the path to the Japanese castle Himeji have different depths and heights — on purpose. The same is said to be true for steps leading up to some European medieval fortresses as well.
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Like the small tufts that topple heavy loads
The purpose is simply to lower the speed of those trying to capture and occupy the castle. If the steps are even then we can sail up the stairs at full speed as soon as we have made note of how high and deep the steps are. But, if the steps are uneven, we are forced to concentrate on where we put our feet and will ascend the stairs much slower. And we certainly cannot focus on shooting arrows at the current lord of the manor either.
The unevenness makes our task harder to manage.
Sometimes flow, sometimes fail
As I see it, the same goes for when and how we do our jobs. Some things, tasks, and events are always the same and we can plan and prepare for them as they come. Going from one place to another took exactly as long as we thought it would. The meeting was on schedule and ended on time. The report was identical to the one from last month. You got a hold of the person you needed an answer from and cleared up whatever was bothering you.
Feeling flow is wonderful. We get things done easily since everything seems to just fall into place.
But, we often stumble on the uneven parts of life. Such a thing could be:
- that it takes longer to do something than you thought, and you fall behind schedule
- you forget to bring something you need
- someone runs late for a meeting and you get a few minutes “over”
- you have to do something now which you had not planned for
- a meeting takes longer than it was supposed to
- someone swings by your office and asks something when you were focused and in the middle of something else
- you put something somewhere other than you usually do (and have to deal with the “unevenness” later when you cannot find what you misplaced)
Sometimes the unforeseen brings an extra edge to our routine and life, but it can just as well put us in uncomfortable and unwanted situations. Luckily, we can do something about this right now that will make things run at least a little smoother from now on.
Do this
Take a moment right now to think about what kind of “uneven” things, events or situations you usually find yourself having to deal with. I just mentioned a few but I am sure you have many more to add to that list.
Given that these things or situations make your life difficult, try answering the following questions:
- Which of all the things on your list could you even out? Meaning, which of the tasks, things, situations, and events could you prevent from even happening in the first place? Could you add 50% to the estimation you make of how long something will take to ensure you finish on time? Could you make it even more clear to yourself where to put something so that you will easily find it the next time you need it? Can you agree with your colleagues on how you signal that you wish not to be disturbed?
- Which of them can you prepare for? We cannot even or straight every little wrinkle out, but we can, however, prepare ourselves for the unforeseen things that happen often (and perhaps even suspiciously frequently). Are you able to determine which of your tasks that have a higher priority than the others, if you should realize you do not have time to do them all? Can you think of a way to answer the person wanting to ask you something without interrupting your flow and throwing you off schedule? Can you add empty slots of time reserved for doing all the unforeseen things that seem to happen daily?
Keep moving forward
If we simply assume that the road ahead will be uneven and bumpy at times, and instead prepare for the unforeseen, it will not slow us down as much when it happens. We change something in our structure that evens the bumps out or solves a problem as it arises. When we find ourselves in a sticky spot, even if we cannot predict when this will be, we are ready and have a solution, routine or trick at hand. We reach for it, use it, and put it back — just as we would with any physical tool we might need and use.
What is your way?
What kind of “unevenness” are you experiencing at the moment, and do you have any ideas of how to handle, reduce or even it out? Please share your thoughts with me.
(Here’s another way to handle that something didn’t turn out as you had expected.)
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