The right time to help others first
Datum: 2024-12-09 12:34
Most of us work with others in one way or another. If they are not our colleagues from the same company, they might be others outside of the organization who we collaborate with in order to progress and reach our goals.
Some of the tasks you do are completely separate from other people’s tasks and have nothing to do with their work. But you probably also have tasks that others are depending on you to do. You need to deliver something to someone else so that they in turn can get their task done, using what you gave them as a starting point.
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Are you the spider in the web?
If this second part of what you have on your to-do list consists of ”a whole lot of tasks” (meaning that quite a few of your tasks are those others are dependent on to do their jobs), then this means you are an important piece of the company-puzzle, so to speak. Many depend on you to do your tasks and the results that come from your work. If you get delayed or postpone doing what others need from you, there is a risk that the progress in the whole business, company, or department slows down and that what is supposed to flow fast and free becomes slow and stagnant.
Continue quicker
If this is the case, you will be right to prioritize doing the tasks others are depending on you to do. You do not want to be the bottleneck that slows other’s progress down but rather the colleague who quickly hands over the baton so that the next eager ”runner” in the business relay race does not have to wait for you and will lose neither speed nor energy.
Mixed messages? Not at all!
Does this really make sense? Is this not the complete opposite of what I usually recommend regarding how to prioritize and that we ought to do tasks that are both urgent and important above all else, where the important is derived from whether or not they contribute to your goals? Not to worry. They are not at odds and opposing perspectives at all. If you need to deliver information or things to others in order for the company to function properly, then this is probably important enough for you to have (or if you do not, you should have) goals that reflect how quickly or well you manage to do these very tasks.
Do this
If you want to contribute to things getting done with greater ease and speed in your company, then do the following:
- Look through your to-do-list and see if you can find tasks others are waiting for you to do.
- Create a ”What others are waiting for”-category, tag, or the likes and use it for these tasks. Perhaps it is referred to as ”labels” or ”hashtags” instead of ”categories” in your particular to-do-list tool.
- Sort your list (if you can) so that you see the ”What others are waiting for”-tasks that need to be completed today (or sooner, or very soon!) at the top of or first on the list.
- If you want to unleash the power of the rest of your team and give them a boost in their work, do these tasks first.
More flow
If you have a role at work that others depend heavily on, the business will definitely flow smoother if you prioritize these tasks first instead of it coming to a halt when you have too much to do. You will also end up with less to do since you will not have to deal with as many ”when is the material coming?”-emails as you usually receive since you will have fewer people breathing down your neck due to you giving them what they want and need sooner.
If this approach means that you in the long-run do not have time for other important tasks you also wish to do, then you might need to consider why others are depending so heavily on you and that you do these particular tasks. Could you change something so that those who are waiting for you will do just fine on their own from now on?
What’s your way?
How do you make sure that the whole business does not come to a grinding halt every time you have other things to do if you are in some kind of key-position? Have you devised some clever method, way, or trick that helps you? If so, please feel free to email me and thereby maybe help others who read this blog.
(Do you know it might be the best time to help others when you are stressed?)
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